There’s two types of people. 

Ones that get hurt who want everyone to feel their pain and ones that get hurt who want to make sure that no one ever feels their pain.

Is there a right or wrong?

Which one are you?

Projecting your pain onto someone else can lead to a toxic relationship that lacks trust, love and genuine care. And by projecting your pain I mean holding onto the emotional baggage from the relationship in your previous chapter and attaching to it like crazy glue.

Why do you want someone to feel that level of hurt?

Is it a cry to be understood? 

Do you secretly hate them? Lol. 

Is it a power/control thing??

Who or what is the grudge against?

and for the people who want to make sure that no one ever feels the pain that they once felt… why?

how bad did it hurt? enough to never wish it on another?

did you learn anything from it?

is this and act out of kindness to them?

is this action because it’s just what you were taught to be morally correct? or is this in your human nature?